According to a report making rounds at the moment, a 43-year-old woman, Omolara , recently shocked the court of law with her narration of the tortuous sexual experience she undergoes in her matrimonial home. Speaking before before the Igando Customary Court in Lagos State, she alleged that sex with her husband was torture. Omolara, who had filed for divorce proceedings against her husband, Solomon Acchoyame, alleged that he exhibited strange behaviors while making love to her. She alleged that he waited for her to sleep, then without waking her up, just opens her clothes and had sex with her, adding that she never enjoyed this. Omolara further told the court that her husband had three things which he used during sex for lubrication, listing them as aboniki balm, mentholatum and dusting powder, adding that these things made her hate having sex with him. Do we blame this man for having such sexual appetite? Meanwhile, in his defense he claimed marrying the woman changed his life for the worse, he became jobless and poor. Perhaps the frustration or the joblessness pushed him to this madness.